Linda, this made me cry. I'm that mom. The one who hides and avoids. I just want to be home by myself. However, I have wonderful friends who manage to encourage me to come to Mothers Day dinner at their house. I didn't for several years, I just stayed home and sulked. But last year and this year I did go to their house and I had a lovely time with friends.
I truly appreciate you sharing this blessed letter with Sweet Tea & Friend's this month.
Paula, I thought of you when I wrote this because you have been transparent here about where you find yourself. How brave and smart of you to finally say 'yes' to those friends who love you. I admire that so much. It's too easy to stay home and sulk. But, sadly, that doesn't do much for us, does it ...
This is so timely and true, Linda. May our Lord let us all know that mothers or not, He loves us dearly. And if we are mothers or missing our own, may we give grace and love through us to share. Blessings!
Beautiful, Linda. Just the right amounts of honesty, empathy, and encouragement for those that find Mothers' Day more painful than celebratory. We must not brush away their heartache.
so nicely written, Linda. Sometimes even with kids Mother's Day is full of tensions. I guess because this holiday is so full of expectations and "perfect" mothering on social media and doesn't really capture the reality of how hard it is to keep good relationships.
Yeah. Aren't you glad we didn't have all that social media stuff back in the day? I can't even imagine raising kids in today's social media/internet addictive, compulsive, unhealthy environment. It was hard enough to parent well without it.
This is so poignant, Linda. Those of us who haven't had a mother in more than 40 years still feel the loss on Mother's Day, wishing we could take them out for dinner or buy that pretty blouse they'd never get for themselves. It's easier now, but still.... these words are simply beautiful. Thanks for this (and for your visit and comment, too!)
Oh I hear you so well, Jeanie. I think of my mom all the time. I'm guessing our moms might have been kindred spirits as my mom never thought of herself or her needs because she was always interested in everyone else and theirs. You and I would be talking about where to take them to buy those pretty blouses they'd never dream of getting for themselves.
Your thoughtful words are making my eyes brim. May this Sunday be filled with all the lovely memories that still remain ...
What a beautiful letter! It brought me to tears as I thought of the many years Kevin and I longed for a precious baby of our own. Mother's Day was so difficult during those years. My heart goes out to all who are hurting this Sunday. Sending love and hugs to you today and thanking God for your kind, caring heart.
Oh yes, yes, Cheryl. Those who suffered for years still bear the scars. Your empathy and compassion for women who long to have a child but are not able will be a solace to others here who will hold your kind words in their hands and hearts.
Linda, your heartfelt words bring comfort to those experiencing loss, especially on Mother’s Day. Your reminder that Jesus understands our deepest sorrows because He experienced them too is so reassuring. Thank you for your love and compassion. May we find strength and peace in His presence through every trial.
“Jesus knows exactly where we’re coming from. I believe our sadness and grief brings tears to His eyes. For He Himself has known abandonment, rejection, trauma, and death. He gets exactly where we’re at.” Thank you, Linda for your love and compassion!
I know many will feel your kindness and understanding and compassion. I think (hope) many congregations have become more sensitive to the losses many women feel, but still....
Nancy, so good to reconnect this evening. Yes, you're right that many congregations have become more sensitive. Praise God. And then ... I'll hear another cringeworthy story or someone shares memories of past hurts that still need healing.
Thank you so much for all your love and compassion, Linda. This especially encourages my heart - "Jesus knows exactly where we’re coming from. I believe our sadness and grief brings tears to His eyes. For He Himself has known abandonment, rejection, trauma, and death. He gets exactly where we’re at." Amen! Love and blessings of strength and peace to you!
Linda, this made me cry. I'm that mom. The one who hides and avoids. I just want to be home by myself. However, I have wonderful friends who manage to encourage me to come to Mothers Day dinner at their house. I didn't for several years, I just stayed home and sulked. But last year and this year I did go to their house and I had a lovely time with friends.
I truly appreciate you sharing this blessed letter with Sweet Tea & Friend's this month.
Paula, I thought of you when I wrote this because you have been transparent here about where you find yourself. How brave and smart of you to finally say 'yes' to those friends who love you. I admire that so much. It's too easy to stay home and sulk. But, sadly, that doesn't do much for us, does it ...
Beautiful, heartfelt words for the grieving, Linda.
It's so good to know there are others who absolutely get where we're coming from even if our stories are decidedly different.
Such a beautiful letter. Thank you. I will proudly feature it on my Pinterest board for Grace & Truth Featured Posts. You can see your article here—
https://www.pinterest.com/embracingtheune/grace-truth-christian-link-up-featured-posts/.
Oh cool! I hope it will encourage someone along the way. Thanks for letting me know, Maree.
This is so timely and true, Linda. May our Lord let us all know that mothers or not, He loves us dearly. And if we are mothers or missing our own, may we give grace and love through us to share. Blessings!
Grace and love. Yes please. Every day of the year ... but especially on those hard ones.
P.S.
I hope Danny is feeling a bit stronger every day ... and that you are recovering, too, friend.
ox
This is expressed so beautifully, Linda. Thank you, friend.
God bless you for the way you honor moms every day of the year, Lois. You've created a lovely resting place filled with sweet memories.
https://www.instagram.com/rememberingourparents/
Beautifully expressed, Linda. There can be grief from varied circumstances but we must never minimize anyone's grief, or disappointment.
Yours is a tender, kind heart ...
Beautiful, Linda. Just the right amounts of honesty, empathy, and encouragement for those that find Mothers' Day more painful than celebratory. We must not brush away their heartache.
Absolutely, Nancy. Mother's Day heartache is significant and deserves all of His tender lovingkindness in our response ...
so nicely written, Linda. Sometimes even with kids Mother's Day is full of tensions. I guess because this holiday is so full of expectations and "perfect" mothering on social media and doesn't really capture the reality of how hard it is to keep good relationships.
Yeah. Aren't you glad we didn't have all that social media stuff back in the day? I can't even imagine raising kids in today's social media/internet addictive, compulsive, unhealthy environment. It was hard enough to parent well without it.
This is so poignant, Linda. Those of us who haven't had a mother in more than 40 years still feel the loss on Mother's Day, wishing we could take them out for dinner or buy that pretty blouse they'd never get for themselves. It's easier now, but still.... these words are simply beautiful. Thanks for this (and for your visit and comment, too!)
Oh I hear you so well, Jeanie. I think of my mom all the time. I'm guessing our moms might have been kindred spirits as my mom never thought of herself or her needs because she was always interested in everyone else and theirs. You and I would be talking about where to take them to buy those pretty blouses they'd never dream of getting for themselves.
Your thoughtful words are making my eyes brim. May this Sunday be filled with all the lovely memories that still remain ...
What a beautiful letter! It brought me to tears as I thought of the many years Kevin and I longed for a precious baby of our own. Mother's Day was so difficult during those years. My heart goes out to all who are hurting this Sunday. Sending love and hugs to you today and thanking God for your kind, caring heart.
Oh yes, yes, Cheryl. Those who suffered for years still bear the scars. Your empathy and compassion for women who long to have a child but are not able will be a solace to others here who will hold your kind words in their hands and hearts.
Thank you for this grace.
Linda, your heartfelt words bring comfort to those experiencing loss, especially on Mother’s Day. Your reminder that Jesus understands our deepest sorrows because He experienced them too is so reassuring. Thank you for your love and compassion. May we find strength and peace in His presence through every trial.
Yours is a trusting, hope-filled prayer, Veronica - 'May we find strength and peace in His presence through every trial.'
Amen.
“Jesus knows exactly where we’re coming from. I believe our sadness and grief brings tears to His eyes. For He Himself has known abandonment, rejection, trauma, and death. He gets exactly where we’re at.” Thank you, Linda for your love and compassion!
So grateful for a compassionate Savior who bears our griefs and carries our sorrows.
I know many will feel your kindness and understanding and compassion. I think (hope) many congregations have become more sensitive to the losses many women feel, but still....
Nancy, so good to reconnect this evening. Yes, you're right that many congregations have become more sensitive. Praise God. And then ... I'll hear another cringeworthy story or someone shares memories of past hurts that still need healing.
We're all works in progress. Help us Lord Jesus.
Thank you so much for all your love and compassion, Linda. This especially encourages my heart - "Jesus knows exactly where we’re coming from. I believe our sadness and grief brings tears to His eyes. For He Himself has known abandonment, rejection, trauma, and death. He gets exactly where we’re at." Amen! Love and blessings of strength and peace to you!
So grateful this has offered you a bit of encouragement this evening, friend ...